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Ways to help your child through their exams

Ways to help your child through their exams

Ways to help your child through their exams

As a parent of three boys, two of which have already experienced GCSE stress and worry and our youngest currently sitting his. We know all too well how demanding they are. We also know how much stress they can cause – both parent and child.

Naturally as a parent we want to help our children through in any way we can.

Here are a few tips on how we as parents can help our child:

  • It is very important to keep an eye out for any symptoms of stress or worry. Stress can affect people in many ways. Keep a close eye on your child’s behavior. If you notice any signs of stress or worry then try and get them to open up to you about what is worrying them so you can deal with it together.
  • Help them to be organised, they have a lot going on at this important time that things can easily be forgotten.
  • Make sure they are getting enough sleep. A good nights sleep works wonders. They will then be ready to tackle those dreaded exams with a clearer head.
  • Encourage time-out. This will help them to switch off for a little while. It will help reduce the stress levels. You could have some quality time together. Go for a meal out somewhere, enjoy some fresh air together for a while. Anything for time-out and a break away from it all for a bit. Let them have a friend sleep over to have a night off from worrying and studying. They can then re-visit the studying feeling refreshed.
  • Try and encourage them to drink plenty of water and cut down on the fizzy drinks.
  • Stress and worry can play havoc with your appetite. Make sure they are eating, even if little and often. Make them up a plate of finger foods to pick at whilst studying.

Ways to help your child through their exams

  • Make sure they have the space, peace and quiet to study. Having loads of noise and distractions can be hard when trying to study.
  • Offer to help, perhaps you can do some printing, photocopying, run some questions past them or even let them question you on a few things. We did that and it lifted the mood when we couldn’t answer the question – well at least it made them laugh!
  • Give them a break – their bedroom might be a mess but they have more important things going on at the moment.
  • Make sure they have all the essentials needed. Revision notes, resources, books, stationary etc.
  • Make sure that when they say they are studying they actually are. Some kids can be crafty and will actually be in their room on their phone. Perhaps try and encourage them to leave their phone with you to save any distractions, or do regular checks on them to see how they are getting on.
  • If study leave is given try and be home to offer support and to make sure they are taking regular breaks.
  • Work together with your child, perhaps draw up a revision timetable together that both agree on.

Ways to help your child through their exams

  • Try and motivate your child, get them talking about their goals in life and how they hope to achieve them.
  • Talk to them about their feelings and explain being nervous about the exams is normal. Perhaps ask the teacher to see if your child can look at past papers so they can see what they look like.
  • A reward at the end of it all can also help a great deal. If they sit every exam and try their best in each then an allowance set for a treat of their choice can help keep them motivated.
  • Give them plenty of hugs and reassurance. A hug can work wonders when we are all feeling stressed and worried.

Studying is important but it is also important not to overload our children with it all.  All we can really do is encourage, listen and support them the best we can. Let them know we are here to help in whatever way they need us to be.

Sending you all lots of luck

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22 Comments

  • Oh gosh. When I cross this path in life, it should be rather interesting as to how I deal with helping my kids! My husband will be great at it though!

  • Milk and Hugs

    05/06/2018

    My girls are young yet, but the exams loom in the future. The stress they can put on the little ones is terrible. I am going to keep these tips in mind as I know we will be facing them soon enough.

  • Halle M

    05/06/2018

    Great tips! I’m a teacher and I love when parents encourage healthy study habits so the child doesn’t feel overwhelmed and stressed.

  • Michelle Christie

    05/06/2018

    Those are great tips. Sometimes it is the most challenging job in the world, but yet the most rewarding. Keep sharing these tips… very helpful.

  • jessylauren

    06/06/2018

    Oh my! I needed these tips in college for myself! My son will be starting school next fall so I will keep these in mind for sure.

  • Brittany

    06/06/2018

    My kid is still a baby, but these are some great tips to keep in mind. Thinking back to when I was a kid, this would have set me up for some great study habits later in life. I especially like the tips about giving breaks and providing reassurance.

  • ninalehan21

    06/06/2018

    i do not have kids. these are great tips to keep in my mind for the future 🙂 i remember when my parents used to reassurance me for my exams

  • Escape Writerse

    06/06/2018

    Getting enough sleep is essential… we forget that exams are just for study and we need not to give so much stress that our kids feel sick both mentally and physically..nice topic…love that your whole family is contributing..a true family blog!!!

  • Hannah Marie

    07/06/2018

    Sometimes, unintentionally, I have been the one causing my child stress. As a mom, I would alwwys want to push my son to do his best, especially when it comes to his studies. It has been a good reminder to me to be encouragjng and not put too much load on him. And that, as a child, he still needs to play and enjoy childhood.

  • Charli B

    07/06/2018

    These are some great tips! My daughter is about to start preparing for her GCSE’s, I know she’s very worried about them but we talk a lot about why she’s worried, reassure her and she has sorted out a new sleep pattern so that she is prepared for when she goes back to school after the summer x

  • I have a son but he is still a baby. Will keep this in mind!

  • The house that never rests

    Hi Angela, enjoy, they grow up far to quickly.

  • The house that never rests

    Hi Charlie. Wish her all the best from us. It can be a very stressful time for them x

  • The house that never rests

    Hi Hannah, i do the same, also without realising. I think it just comes natural for us to push them. Wish him all the best in his exams from us.

  • The house that never rests

    Sleep is something my son lacks at the moment through worry. He could normally sleep no problems – until gone midday if given half the chance. But now he is having trouble. Hopefully this will pass soon.

  • The house that never rests

    Reassurance can definitely work wonders.

  • The house that never rests

    Thank you. Yes breaks and reassurance are very important.

  • The house that never rests

    Hope they help. Wish him luck from us.

  • The house that never rests

    Hi Michelle. Thank you. Hope they help.

  • The house that never rests

    Thank you. Yes i think it is very important.

  • The house that never rests

    Hi, i think the stress is awful. Hope these tips help in some way.

  • The house that never rests

    It can be very difficult. Talking about how everyone is feeling helps a great deal. You can then all help each other.

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