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Divorce is a painful experience, but you can move past it with the proper perspective and support. Research shows that around 33% of marriages currently end in divorce in the UK. 

Getting through a divorce is never easy and takes time, but it’s not the end of the world either. Whether you’re just beginning to get over your divorce or want to recover from it faster, there are ways to help you heal and move forward in life. Here are some effective strategies on how to get your life back after a divorce so you can start afresh and thrive again:

Lean on your friends and family

Whether you’re the one initiating the divorce or not, it can be challenging to cope with the stress and sudden change in your life. You might experience feelings of regret, shame, or guilt that can make it hard to move on from your relationship. It’s important to share your feelings and get support from others who can help you through this tough time. There are many ways to find support, but it’s essential to choose people who are good listeners and don’t judge you. Some people might not be as helpful or supportive as you might hope, so choosing people is essential. Support groups can be a great choice, as they allow you to surround yourself with like-minded people who can understand what you’re going through. 

Give yourself time to grieve

Breakups and divorces come with a lot of grief and loss. Some of this is normal; after all, you’ve just ended a long-term relationship. But some of it may be because you may not have accepted the breakup and divorce yet. Regardless of the cause, you want to make sure that you can process your feelings and move on healthily. 

Revisit Your Goals

As you try to move past your divorce, you must revisit your goals and the person you want to be. It’s essential to have something to work towards, not only during the divorce but also afterwards. Having something to strive towards can help keep you focused, motivated, and positive. Having clear and specific goals will also help you get back on track if you ever feel off course. You may have written your goals down already, but it’s important to revisit them regularly. Remind yourself of what you’re working towards to stay on track.

Don’t rush into a new relationship

It’s natural to want to rush into a new relationship after a breakup or divorce – or even if you’ve been single for a long time. But you must give yourself time to heal before entering a new relationship. Entering a new relationship before you’re emotionally ready can lead to more heartbreak and pain. You might be prepared to begin dating again, but that doesn’t mean you’re ready to be in a relationship. Dating is about finding out what you like and don’t enjoy about potential partners without having any emotional investment in the relationship. This is where speed dating can be beneficial. It allows you to meet new people with any expectations or commitment other than showing up and participating.


Getting through a divorce can be challenging, but it’s important to approach it healthily. An excellent way to do this is by leaning on friends and family for support and surrounding yourself with positive things like books and music. It’s also essential to revisit your goals and be emotionally ready for a new relationship.

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