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How to Get Your Life Back After a Divorce: A Guide on Moving On

How to Get Your Life Back After a Divorce: A Guide on Moving On

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Divorce is a painful experience, but you can move past it with the proper perspective and support. Research shows that around 33% of marriages currently end in divorce in the UK. 

Getting through a divorce is never easy and takes time, but it’s not the end of the world either. Whether you’re just beginning to get over your divorce or want to recover from it faster, there are ways to help you heal and move forward in life. Here are some effective strategies on how to get your life back after a divorce so you can start afresh and thrive again:

Lean on your friends and family

Whether you’re the one initiating the divorce or not, it can be challenging to cope with the stress and sudden change in your life. You might experience feelings of regret, shame, or guilt that can make it hard to move on from your relationship. It’s important to share your feelings and get support from others who can help you through this tough time. There are many ways to find support, but it’s essential to choose people who are good listeners and don’t judge you. Some people might not be as helpful or supportive as you might hope, so choosing people is essential. Support groups can be a great choice, as they allow you to surround yourself with like-minded people who can understand what you’re going through. 

Give yourself time to grieve

Breakups and divorces come with a lot of grief and loss. Some of this is normal; after all, you’ve just ended a long-term relationship. But some of it may be because you may not have accepted the breakup and divorce yet. Regardless of the cause, you want to make sure that you can process your feelings and move on healthily. 

Revisit Your Goals

As you try to move past your divorce, you must revisit your goals and the person you want to be. It’s essential to have something to work towards, not only during the divorce but also afterwards. Having something to strive towards can help keep you focused, motivated, and positive. Having clear and specific goals will also help you get back on track if you ever feel off course. You may have written your goals down already, but it’s important to revisit them regularly. Remind yourself of what you’re working towards to stay on track.

Don’t rush into a new relationship

It’s natural to want to rush into a new relationship after a breakup or divorce – or even if you’ve been single for a long time. But you must give yourself time to heal before entering a new relationship. Entering a new relationship before you’re emotionally ready can lead to more heartbreak and pain. You might be prepared to begin dating again, but that doesn’t mean you’re ready to be in a relationship. Dating is about finding out what you like and don’t enjoy about potential partners without having any emotional investment in the relationship. This is where speed dating can be beneficial. It allows you to meet new people with any expectations or commitment other than showing up and participating.


Getting through a divorce can be challenging, but it’s important to approach it healthily. An excellent way to do this is by leaning on friends and family for support and surrounding yourself with positive things like books and music. It’s also essential to revisit your goals and be emotionally ready for a new relationship.


Bigger Is Better: A Simple Guide To Maximising Your Home Spaces

Bigger Is Better: A Simple Guide To Maximising Your Home Spaces

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When designing your home living areas, the perception of increased space can only be a good thing. Focusing on this goal with your upcoming home upgrades will unlock increased happiness for all the family.

So, what are the best ways to make the home feel bigger and better over the coming weeks? Here’s all you need to know.

Lose The Guest Room

The guest bedroom you’ve used three times since buying the home is a huge waste of space. Whether you transform it into a home office, gym space or place to play music doesn’t matter. Any purpose is better than no purpose. Besides, the project could well add value to the property, which gives you an added incentive to act.

A newly revamped space with added functions will allow you to achieve more with the home. And if you’ve previously been doing those tasks in other living spaces, this job indirectly helps those rooms too. 

Use Light To Your Advantage

Tricking the eyes into thinking the rooms are bigger is a major breakthrough. As such, learning to use light to your advantage is vital. Painting the walls a lighter colour will make a huge difference. This is one of the quickest, easiest, and most affordable projects to complete. You’d be very foolish to ignore it.

Introducing more natural light can be achieved by adding a skylight or dressing windows. When supported by mirrored furniture, homes take on a larger appearance as well as added luxury. This will yield stunning results.


Even the biggest rooms will feel small and cramped when swamped by clutter. Thankfully, this is another issue that can be corrected very quickly. Better still, holding a garage sale or selling items online will generate some added cash. This can subsequently be invested into new products for the home. 

Even without the financial rewards, removing clutter from the home will save valuable space. As well as removing unwanted items, you can consider going paperless. This will allow you to lose a lot of paperwork and files that currently take up lots of space.

Embrace Outside Spaces

Your relationship with the property should not start and end with the internal living spaces. Making the most of your garden in summer can boost your health and happiness. Given the apprehension surrounding social activities, this is the perfect time to use those ideas. After all, your garden can be a space to host friends and family.

The garden isn’t only a place for relaxed vibes and natural beauty. You could create a patio home cinema space under a pergola. Or you could erect a summer house to provide similar functions to the converted spare room.

Choose Compact Items

Saving valuable floor space is a key step towards creating a better home. There are several ways to make this happen without compromising your daily activities. Using compact items is the best solution. Wall-mounted TV brackets and shelving are key items that should feature high on the agenda.

Compact furniture choices are particularly useful too. This could include stacking coffee tables, high sleeper beds, or retractable items and fold-up goods. This is a particularly good idea when working with noticeably small rooms.

Create Added Storage

The average family now owns more assets than any previous generation. This rings true even after the decluttering session has been completed. As such, it will be necessary to think about creating added storage facilities. Garden storage boxes can be a wise investment. But you can do so much more.

Small DIY projects can work wonders for your living spaces. Adding hooks behind doors are a great option. Meanwhile, you may be able to find extra storage under the stairs or by revamping the drawer layouts. 

Connect Internal And External Spaces

If you want the living areas as a whole to feel bigger, you can break down the barrier between indoors and outdoors spaces. The installation of sliding doors is the most effective way to do this by far. This also helps with the prospect of increasing the natural lighting within the living spaces.

More importantly, though, it makes the garden deck or patio truly feel like a part of the living space. Whether you’re home alone or welcoming guests into the property, the benefits of this are huge. And it’s a positive feeling that won’t fade.

Create Pathways

The feng shui of a room has a telling influence on the way you respond to it. One of the most important steps is to create clear walkways. Leaving doorways and the pathways to them clear will make the rooms feel bigger and organised. You can use runner rugs and various tools to make it even clearer. The possibilities are endless.

As well as clear pathways, you need to ensure that seating positions are thought out. There should be a clear focal point without blocking off radiators. Practicality should cover function and appearances.

Use Contrasting Colours

While light colour schemes can reflect the light, rooms shouldn’t be bland. Using contrasting colours can work wonders for living rooms, kitchens, bathrooms, and more. Whether it’s black and white or adding a dash of colour is up to you. The impacts don’t just improve the size of the room. They add a burst of character.

If rooms already have character-defining features like fireplaces or brick walls, they can be used to great advantage. The key is to truly incorporate them. Otherwise, they could stand out and make spaces look smaller.


Finally, if the current available space doesn’t feel right, add more. Extensions are an option but will eat away at the outside dimensions. A better option, then, may be to work up or down with a loft or basement conversion. This can create a new living space, bedroom, or storage facility. Either way, it will make the home feel bigger.

As things stand, you are missing out on the prospect of having an extra floor to work with. While this job is the most extensive and expensive, it will bring a good ROI. in the right situation, it could even prevent the need to move home.